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REFLECTIONS ON LIFE AS WE AGE, AND THE SEARCH FOR PEACE.
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Thank you for sharing this Mr Anaya. Very good and timely. In my personal experience I have been on some occasions in some of the most tranquil and amazingly peaceful and beutiful places and yet I could get no peace inside. On other occasions I found myself in much worse environments, sometimes very challenging and difficult and sometimes there in some moments I found real peace and tranquility in the chaos. I recall that when I could not find no peace in the tranquil places I felt very old and tired and when found peace in the chaos I felt young and fresh (regardless of my age). I’m not sure if there’s a message in this, but I can confess that I have on occasion seeked out chaos in my life to experience ‘peace’ … (and it usually worked for a while). Now I’m getting older and I’m working towards finding peace in tranquility. Thank you for your post, because you are absolutely right. Peace is ultimatley found within.
I can feel with you!
Thanks Martrina! I visited your blog and I see we are in the same club of work profession (language teaching) 😉
Thank you a lot for your visit in my house! I have to admit that now I only work exceptionally because of my age! I, however, read books with two groups of women. At the moment we are reading “The year of the Flood” by Margaret Atwood and with the other groups short stories by Roald Dahl in order to laugh a little bit. Best regards Martina
It was nice visiting! 🙂 Well, I will aim for your lifestyle when I get older (I’m on my way, but still working a lot – sometimes 14 or 15 half-hour lessons per day by Skype. Although I often dream about a time that I can just read, read, read (I have a LONG list to get through) – and Write! At the moment I have to fit it all in in-between, but everything in life has its time, I know that too, so trying to make the best of each stage.
Best wishes,
Jacques
We all go through periods in our life, and to every age, of man (Childhood, young, adult, middle age, mature, and old) we go through new experiences, that affect us, as how well, or as how bad we did in the previous ones.
But reaching an inner state of peace, it’s also a practice, of a spiritual nature, that can have many modalities, according to the Tradition(s) you approach it, and the result of a life morally well lived.
We can have it all, but if we have no peace, our few, or many accomplishments, will be of little use, to reach the state of peace, and tranquility.
By the way the Japanese have a phrase: Mizu no Kokoro , or Mushin.
“Mizu no Kokoro” or the “mind like water.” This mental attitude refers to a mind that is in total harmony with the Cosmos that it resembles a still pond of water without any ripples where the surface reflects a clear and perfectly undistorted image of the surroundings, like a mirror.
Mushin cannot be grasped by the intellect, it must be experienced, even if in turmoil, or chaos as you described.
Thank you for your comment Jean-Jacques. 🙂
Thank for your reflection and message, in particular about the Japanese attitude mindfulness. Sometimes I think we in the Western world (in general) are centuries behind the East when it comes to inner knowledge and practice. Fortunately we can also benefit from their wisdoms if we choose to explore them. Wishing you a good weekend! 🙂
Well not as bad as like Rudyard Kipling ballad of East and West:
“East is East, and West is West, and never the twain shall meet.”
Although to be fair on Kipling day, globalization was not even dreamed, today we are all over the place, and on my early youth discovered Yoga, Meditation, and later on I even study for some years under a Soto Zen monk, and Martial Arts teacher, and never have set my feet on India, or Japan.
Look at yourself with your trips to Mezzo America, and South America and your knowledge about the Maya Calendars, in my view a lot of progress has being made.
Sorry for my lateness to answer, in fact over the weekend I had old friends visiting me, and had very little time to do anything but to host them, and I am really back up, trying to catch up.
Thank you for your comment Jean-Jacques. 🙂
El tema desarrollado tiene cien por ciento de certeza. El sentido de la vida está en muestras manos. Nuestras acciones determinarán si rumbo.
Ahora bien, la paz interior lo vamos a lograr si dejamos de anticipar constantemente el mañana. Solo tenemos que vivir el presente de la mejor manera.
Realmente tu escrito mueve a una reflexión profunda de la vida que llevamos.
Un abrazo grande y que estés bien
Manuel Angel
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Asi es Manuel, viviendo el presente a cabalidad, no tenemos que preocuparnos del futuro, ni del pasado.
Gracias por exponer esta simple verdad.
Un abrazo Manuel! 🙂
Más bien gracias a ti por hacernos reflexionar con tus escritos. Buen fin de semana.
Igualmente y gracias! 🙂
As I am now in the early 60s, I came to the conclusion that the past is not important, it is however a part of present times so getting aware of all those left stations of life means a good schedule for the future as well. In August I have changed my former blog to a personal website limited to 20 posts; actually there are 19 posts online which reflect the most important things in my life. The last outstanding post actually reserved for my forthcoming marriage in late October, I am still open for more and other adventures. Cheers 🙂 Ulli
Well, it sounds wonderful, and wish you the best Ulli in your forthcoming new adventures, including your new marriage.
Thank you for letting us know, congratulations. 🙂
Thank you very much for this most beautiful post. I have however some doubts,whether it really makes us stronger, if very important things are taken from us or, if this cannot also destroy is us.
Best regards Martina
Well, we see many people destroyed by loss, it’s true, but we also have the Example of the steadfastness of Job as a symbolic ideal to follow, and it’s also true many great people have overcome misfortune, and loss, and we see as an example of character.
And as I mention Epictetus was a living example, maybe you will like to read his Enchiridion a short manual of Stoic ethical advice, I find it very good, clear and enjoyable.
Just by synchronicity I got this right now:
Greetings to you Martina, and thank you for being in touch. 🙂
I really appreciate your advice and thank you very much:) I have taken note of Enchiridion and will order it as soon as possible and the thoughts of dr. Stein are like balsam for my heart. I want, however, to finish “The year of the Flood” by Margaret Atwood, which I am reading with a group of friends first. In this book one gets the impression that the human being has become so knowledgable that he doesn’t need a deity to destroy everything, he can do it by himself and his stupidity!!
I wish you a very good time and send you my best regards Martina
Sorry for my lateness, I was busy all weekend with visitors, and little time left to be online.
I am glad you have the Enchiridion of Epictetus, on your reading list, a wonderful book.
Best wishes to you Martina. 🙂
Don‘t worry be happy!! I have the said book already😀Enjoy yourself and best regards Martina
Great wisdom in this post. Thanks for sharing.
We appreciate your words, thank you. 🙂
Wonderful, thought provoking post. I’m 82 with a lot of memories, both good and bad. What did I accomplish? I see how my children and my grandchildren turned out and bask in the glow of what my wife and I accomplished.
Life it’s a mix barrel, we all suffer in it, but also we can find many things to be thankful for, as who our parents were, and how much we owe to them, unfortunately not all we can say the same thing, your children, and grandchildren surely enjoy, and bask on the fortune of having you, and your wife as the root of their life.
Thank you Don for your comment. 🙂
Ah…the ultimate goal — to be in total harmony with the cosmos while working diligently towards a better world for others. I’m grateful that I’ve learned many lessons along the journey so far.
That’s the proper attitude, I am glad for you, however remember the path it’s long…
Thank you for sharing your comment, we appreciate it. 🙂
Thank you for your powerful words, uplifting and inspiring as always.
That first photo you found up there with the figure standing in the immense blue shallows with the trees shadowing the water struck me like a blow almost; something familiar, a memory…. I don’t know. Strange. But so very very beautiful……
Thank you we appreciate your words.
About the picture, most of us resonate with clear, peaceful waters, it give us a sense of peace, and purity, if you notice the Bible is full of citations about clear, and peaceful waters, associations of a spiritual nature are common, and the reason it resonate within us, we seek clean and pure water for drinking, and bathing, as oppose to dark, turbulent , and stormy waters. 🙂
That’s fascinating
Thank you Raj, we appreciate it. 🙂
Peace is a good goal right now… 🙏🏻
For all the turmoil of what’s going on around the World, it seems today we really need a peace break, from worries, about an uncertain future, regardless if some will say there is turmoil all the time.
Thank you for your comment. 🙂
I am seriously thinking some time in Asia when all the madness is over. I really liked the feeling when we went a coupla years back.
Wherever we have fond memories our heart goes there.
Hopefully next year things will go back to some sort of normality, I hope. 🙂
McKinsey is forecasting a possible exit of the crisis around 2nd or 3rd quarter 2021… If things go well…
Hopefully, will see.
This post really resonates with me.
It’s interesting I hadn’t read it yet, but published some kind of similar ideas how I reminisce about the past. Canada celebrates Thanksgiving, so, I was off today.
I hope you’re fine and safe!
Well, so far I am fine, and have weathered successfully the tiresome pandemic quarantine, although I know some friends who have contracted the virus, but survived the sickness.
Happy celebrations to you Inese. 🙂
Peace be with you.
Thank you Ben, we all need it, hopefully you will get a great dose of Peace as well. 🙂
Thank you. 💖
Such a beautiful post! Well-written words of wisdom. I had a lot of drama in my life when I was young and now that I’m knocking on the door of fifty, my goal is to enjoy what years I have left in keep away people who bring drama. My other goals are to take life as it comes and live in the moment. Thank you so much for this post. 🙂
I am glad you are to the point in life when you have achieved at least a sense we can do without the drama, and focus on reaching peace, and enjoyment.
We also like to thank you Cherie, for letting us know you found this post to your liking. 🙂
You’re so welcome. It’s my pleasure.
Hi. Greetings from the USA. How are you? “Serenity and peace within”: Yes, that’s absolutely a major goal, and a key to a good life. They are not easy to attain, but we should always try. Neil Scheinin
Well, yes serenity and peace, are hard to attain, but we can have a practice to increase our levels, and we also can correct our attitude, and that helps too.
I am fine, thank you for asking, hope you are as well.
Best wishes to you and your family Neil. 🙂
Luminous words, once again. Crossing the threshold of middle age has brought me many insights. I have much more gratitude than regret. I’ve observed many others sink into bitterness as they lament the passing of the “good years”. As you state so eloquently: how we experience aging is a choice. Hope you are well, kind sir.
Thank you for your great comment Julie, Dante open his Divine Comedy on his first book Inferno (Hell) with the words:
“In the middle of the journey of our life
I found myself astray in a dark wood
where the straight road had been lost…”
Well, I will add we are lost the moment we arrive into life, maybe at middle age we start realizing we have been lost since then, and it’s time to find our way back, to peace, and happiness by accepting who we are, and making the best of it, with whatever our lot is, regardless.
Thank you for your comment we appreciate it, and a big hug to you. 🙂
If you have peace, you have a lot. Great post.
Yes, as you said peace its fundamental.
Thank you Geri for your comment. 🙂
Beautiful words and photos
Thank you for your kindness, I like your blog as well. 🙂